“Are you a new teacher?”
Some kid is definitely going to ask you so what are you going to say? What most new TFA teachers incorrectly think is the best way to answer this is to exaggerate the seventeen days (or hours!?!) of practice teaching during the institute. To me, this is like bragging about your girlfriend in Canada.
It’s not the right thing to say because when you eventually make a mistake that reveals that you must be a new teacher, then you’ll be not only a new teacher, but a liar.
The best way to answer the question is to confidently look the student in the eye and say, decisively, “Yes.” And then a half-second pause with an implied, “(and what’s it to you?)”, and then back to whatever you were talking about. Students respond to decisiveness, even from a new teacher.
If they follow up with, “How old are you?”, you just say, “No more personal questions,” and continue.


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Wonderful blog, Gary, keep it up. It brings up so many thoughts I don’t know where to begin. So I’ll just start somewhere and not worry about saying everything that I might.
What’s the setting of your examples? That is, what subject are you teaching and what grade level? Your post on mistake #1 sounds like it could be fifth or sixth grade. Mistake #2 sounds like maybe a bit older group. Are you currently a teacher or are you writing from memories of previous years?
In Mistake #1 I think you make a good point, but your planning process raises some questions. Your talk of “visuals” and “activity” make it sound pretty much idealistic, and time consuming, more like the idealistic planning from ed school than the practical planning teachers do on a day to day basis. My planning in teaching college freshman math is pretty mundane – figure out what topics and sections in the book to cover in the next class period and what homework to assign. It’s not at all what they taught us in ed school, and it shouldn’t be, because it has to fit the real world constraints on time. So my question is this. Is this typical planning for you, or is it a bit of an artificial example? This is not to criticize. Your central point about planning too much and how to avoid the pitfalls of that is very good. But I’m curious.
I don’t know much about TFA, just what I read in blogs such as yours. But I am concluding that the training they give you must just be pretty much the regular ed school training, but crammed into a considerably shorter time. If that is the case then I would expect all the usual criticisms of ed school to apply to TFA training, and to be valid. The biggest cricicism, I think, is that the ed school content is not reality grounded. Would that be your judgment of the matter? Or, if TFA gives something different I’d be interested in learning about it. I guess here’s the big question: Does your TFA training have a realistic theory, or analysis, or even description of teaching and learning that is of practical as well as explanatory value to practicing teachers? If so, is it written up in a book? Who wrote it? And if not, a secondary question would be this: Is the TFA training a substantial notch above the usual ed school training? If so, in what particulars?
I got your book and read through it quickly. I’ll study it a bit more carefully as time permits. Actually maybe I won’t, as I now teach college freshman math and my students are very well mannered. Indeed many of my students are much too passive. But I well remember my troubles as a young teacher in handling discipline problems. I was not good at it, and I had some rough times. I certainly could have used your book then. I am not aware of any other book that gets down the nitty gritty of teaching.
Except my own, that is. The first blog entry of yours that I read was about not posting consequences. It took me a bit to realize what you meant by “posting consequences”, but then I very quickly realized that you and I think quite a bit alike. Or at least I think we do. Anyway here’s a link to the first chapter of a book I wrote on classroom discipline many years ago. It didn’t sell, I’m afraid, but I hope you will find some food for thought in it. http://www.brianrude.com/Dchap01.htm